I have had an up and down week. My cousin had a baby girl, which is such a lovely thing to happen. I have made her a few cute little things.

And on a parenting discussion board I am on, one of the girls also had a baby girl, stillborn. So unbelievably sad. I feel really upset by it. Its just such a strange world we live in.

In other news, I have decided that I really need to get on to making my wedding video. I had some footage which my brother shot at the wedding, and I had plans to make it into a nice video with the help of a friend from my mother's group, while she was on maternity leave. So I waited and waited and waited for this footage and then it finally arrives, via my mother. I don't know how she got hold of it, she doesn't even live in the same country as my brother, but she roped my sister in law's brother into editing it and got her boyfriend to design a cover for it. And then she sent me a copy.

A copy of MY own wedding video!! To the wedding that she wasn't even invited to.

Un-believable.

So of course it has none of the photos I had collected off my mother in law, of my husband when he was younger, and none of the photos off our own camera! I had taken photos of the resort especially for the video, and it had music I had never heard of, not the music I had chosen that we used at our wedding, and a cover design that someone else had done.

I don't blame the people who were roped into doing this. A misguided act led by an interfering troublemaker.

I just can't believe the nerve of some people. And then I hear that she had been offering it around to people to view!! Before I had even seen it myself!!

So of course I was very annoyed (but not overly surprised) at this and it put me off making it how I wanted to make it. I just set it to one side and tried not to think about it because every time I did I would get upset all over again. I can't believe that anyone would think that was a normal thing to do, but oh well, what can you do about some people.

And by the time I actually received it my friend had gone back to work.

But, I really want to have it for myself. We haven't even showed it to the inlaws yet because I want them to see OUR wedding video, how WE want it.

So I am finally ready to actually have a crack at it.

And I can tell you for free, one person who WON'T be getting a copy, lol!!